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Phyllis Smith

Therapist · North Carolina

Phyllis Smith

LMFT

Focused, practical therapy for real-life problems

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  • Strengths based
  • Goal oriented
  • Relationship focus

About Phyllis

Phyllis Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who draws on five years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, career concerns, and mood-related issues. Her work emphasizes practical steps that clients can use day to day.

She uses a collaborative, strengths-based approach. Phyllis listens for each person's goals and helps set clear, achievable steps toward them. She often encourages small changes that build resilience and restore hope over time.

Phyllis blends several therapeutic styles to meet real needs. She uses client-centered methods to keep conversations focused on the person's values. Cognitive behavioral ideas help when patterns of thinking and behavior feel stuck. The Gottman Method is a tool she draws on for relationship work, and mindfulness practices are used to calm strong emotions.

Her background includes work with diverse people across differences in race, gender, sexual orientation, and identity. Phyllis pays attention to the contexts that shape someone's life, such as family patterns and everyday roles. That systems perspective guides how she frames problems and goals.

Sessions tend to be practical and grounded. Phyllis names opportunities for change and offers guidance while challenging clients in a supportive way. Her aim is to help people create new habits of thinking and behavior that fit their real lives.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Phyllis often combines client-centered work with cognitive behavioral ideas and mindfulness practice. Client-centered Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting so clients feel heard and can set their own goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thinking and behavior patterns and applies concrete exercises to change them. Mindfulness Therapy uses attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. She will talk with each person about goals, needs, and preferences, and together they decide which methods to try first. The plan can change as progress is reviewed and new challenges appear.

The practical benefits of online therapy include easier scheduling and fitting sessions into a busy life. Many people find it simpler to have regular check-ins when travel time is removed. Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed here. Online work can make therapy more convenient without changing the focus on clear goals and everyday skills.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Phyllis help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting issues, addictions, grief, career concerns, ADHD, and related areas such as attachment and family of origin problems.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is collaborative and strengths based. She sets clear goals with clients and focuses on practical steps and new patterns of thinking and behavior.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has five years of experience providing therapy to a diverse range of people and presenting concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with an NC LMFT credential and practices in North Carolina.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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