- Career and relationships
- Trauma informed
- Goal oriented
About Shelly
He spent decades in executive roles at major hospitals and health systems, then moved into private practice. His background includes an MSW from Loyola University and an MBA from North Park University, and he holds LICSW and LCSW credentials. Life experiences from growing up in Chicago and caring for family shaped his interest in empathy, resilience, and practical problem solving.
Shelly uses a mix of approaches to fit each person’s needs. He leans on cognitive behavioral ideas to change unhelpful thinking, psychodynamic ideas to understand patterns from the past, and solution-focused methods to set small, reachable goals. Motivational Interviewing is part of his work when people need help shifting habits.
In early sessions he listens to what brought someone in, reviews background and strengths, and sets realistic goals together. He describes therapy as a partnership where the client’s input guides the plan. The aim is clearer thinking, greater confidence, and better day-to-day coping.
Outside of work he enjoys traveling, hiking, reading, and art. He lives in New Mexico with his wife and their Yorkie, Kugel, and favors a hopeful, persistent outlook when helping people move forward.
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Therapeutic approaches
Experience
30+ years
Credentials
Illinois, Kentucky, Florida, New Mexico, West Virginia, Arizona
Languages
English
How these approaches translate to online work
CBT focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. Online sessions can use this approach to practice skills, set concrete homework, and track progress between meetings. EFT emphasizes emotions and relationships, helping people name feelings and improve important connections through focused conversations and exercises.Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will talk with clients about their goals, history, and preferences and then decide together which methods to prioritize. That collaborative planning helps ensure sessions are tailored and practical.
Confirm the available session formats before booking because specific formats are not listed in the profile. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example by removing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a workday, or offering options when head-down focus is needed. Licensed professionals can adapt CBT and EFT exercises to work over distance so progress continues between meetings.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does this therapist help with?
Shelly supports people dealing with relationship problems, career questions, trauma and abuse, depression, addiction, grief, eating issues, anger, self-esteem, bipolar challenges, compassion fatigue, and related concerns. He also works with issues like abandonment, caregiving stress, chronic illness, and communication problems.
What is the therapist's approach and style?
The style is practical and collaborative. He combines cognitive behavioral, psychodynamic, solution-focused, emotionally-focused, and motivational interviewing techniques to match each person's needs.
How much experience does he have?
He has 30 years of experience, including executive roles in health systems and work in private practice.
What credentials and location are listed?
He holds LICSW and LCSW credentials and is based in New Mexico.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the profile.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.